Your Child’s First Pair of Glasses

When babies, toddlers, or preschools first see the eye doctor, it can be surprising to find out they have a hard time seeing properly. Some children are more “at risk” of needing glasses. For example, for babies born premature, their first pair may come as early as 6 or 9 months. Visual impairments can affect many aspects of your child’s development including using their hands, moving around safely, play and problem solving. 

Some conditions that are common in babies, toddlers and preschoolers are:

  • Esotropia: when one or both eyes turn inward or are misaligned
  • Strabismus: eyes that are not straight resulting in reduced vision
  • Farsightedness (hyperopia): when objects in the distance are seen better than objects that are near (corrected with a positive lens)
  • Nearsightedness (myopia): objects near are seen better than objects far (corrected with a minus lens)
  • Nystagmus: involuntary continuous movement of the eyes
  • Retinopathy of Prematurity: the retina may be partially or completely detached; seen in premature babies

Most optometrists and ophthalmologists say the earlier the child’s vision can be corrected, the better. If your child needs glasses, the next step is keeping them on. There are a few tips and tricks that the eye doctor may provide you with – including the following:

Step One: Fitting

  • Try not to come directly at your child’s face – this can be intrusive and scary
  • Look at the structure of the glasses during the fitting – do the nose pieces fit correctly? Do the glasses slide down when your child is moving around?
  • Be a role model – try on glasses with your child and make glasses interesting, but not a game

Step Two: Keeping them on

  • Use distractions! Kids are so interested in their world. Provide something interesting to look at (maybe a photo album or book), then verbally prompt the child “glasses are coming on,” and then from behind gently place on your child’s face.
  • Start with short times and be consistent with your approach.
  • Keep it positive – try using “glasses stay on” rather than “no taking your glasses off!”

Step Three: The Everyday Routine

  • Make putting on their glasses part of their morning routine. Try incorporating them into dressing.
  • If the child forgets they are wearing them… great!
  • If your child is tired, and irritable and they take them off – that’s ok.

Babies will mouth glasses, and toddlers will lose glasses. Remember to look at straps, strings, clips etc. that could save you money in the long run! As your child grows and gets used to wearing them daily, these can be removed.

If you are worried about your child’s vision, speak to your Family Doctor for a referral. Newborn babies can only see about 12-18 inches away, which is the perfect length between your baby in arm, and your face. The ability to see high contrast (black on white) starts in the newborn period, and then around 3-4 months, your baby can watch you move around the room. At around 6 months your baby’s eyes are able to see further and further away.

Early and regular eye exams are a great way to make sure your child is seeing the world properly.  Contact your optometrist to find out the best plan for your child.  The Eye See… Eye Learn Program is another great resource to help children in Junior Kindergarten.

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2 Responses to Your Child’s First Pair of Glasses

  1. Heather says:

    This is a great idea for a post! We’ve had such a challenge trying to get our daughter to keep her glasses on. One tip is the lighter the glasses, the better. Titanium glasses can be expensive, but they are light, so the child doesn’t notice them as easily. They also don’t slide down her nose as much. Another suggestion is that if you have a child with special needs, try to see an optometrist who has had a lot of experience with that particular disability. That way you’ll get the best advice and the best glasses.

  2. Holly says:

    Hi Heather,
    Thank you for your comment. You’re absolutely right, seeing the right Optometrist is so helpful. Fitting can be difficult depending on the shape of the bridge of the nose, (which may be characteristic of specific syndromes). For growing toddlers or children finding the right pair can be challenging. Your tips are much appreciated. I’ll keep that in mind when discussing glasses with parents. Thanks for following HaltonParents!

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