Simple ways to get out the door with your new baby

Congratulations on the birth of your new baby! You are finally home and getting used to life as a family.  Now that you’re settled, the itch to venture outside your four walls may have started. But the thought of where to go with baby involves work and may feel overwhelming. Don’t worry, these feelings are common for new parents, so let’s work through it together.

To start, make your early outings short and manageable. Try a walk around your neighbourhood or meet with a friend at the local park or coffee shop.  You may be surprised just how tired you feel after being out.  As a new parent, you are dealing with more changes than you likely realize.  It takes time to adjust to your new role emotionally, socially and even physically as your body heals from pregnancy and birth.  As for baby, each day is a brand new adventure, exciting and tiring all at once.

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Returning to work? How to make breastfeeding work for you!

One of the easiest and least stressful ways to return to work if you are breastfeeding is continuing to breastfeed. Breastfeeding as a working mom looks different for every mom and baby. With some trial and error you can find something that works for you. For me and my children, nursing offered us much needed one-on-one time and was a great help when my kids were exhausted and cranky after a long day of child care. It also feels good to know the benefits of breastmilk continue for as long as you are nursing – even if you are only nursing once a day. Continue reading

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My new pup and rabies. What’s the connection?

I really did it… I gave in to two years of persistent requests, power point presentations and pleading by my kids for a dog. Yup, we got a puppy, cutest thing ever. I may be a bit bias.

dog2016_6920This is my first dog ever. I knew nothing of owning a dog –nothing! So our first vet visit was full of questions and more questions about how to care for the pup and about all the vaccines he needed.

My pup needed vaccines at each vet appointment including the rabies vaccine.

Of course I’d heard about rabies, but I didn’t know it is a deadly disease in both humans and animals. And I didn’t know that in Ontario it’s required by law to vaccinate all cats and dogs over three months old and if you don’t you could be fined. Continue reading

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Snivy lives upstairs – Making self-regulation your own

When my son faces a stressful or frustrating situation, he uses his self-titled  snivy-power. Yes, just like a lot kids his age (well all ages actually), he loves Pokémon. His favourite is a green grass snake Pokémon named Snivy. Snivy has a calm, collected demeanor and is very intelligent.

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So when stressed, my son uses his snivy-power to work through his frustrations and calm his brain.

Snivy-power is his take on what adults call self-regulation. Self-regulation is talked about a lot in parenting circles these days. So what exactly is it?  Dr. Stuart Shanker describes it as responding to life’s stressors, returning to a calm and alert state, ready to deal with new circumstances. Continue reading

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The realities of “bad moms”

I was ready for some much needed routine as this school year starts, but then the reality hit me! The relaxed mode I was in is over and I’m left with an enormous amount of stress. Yes, stress with the demands of being super mom! This includes the never ending demands of motherhood, including balancing work; helping with lunches, homework, after school activities… the list goes on (and on… and on…). Continue reading

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