Is it safe to let my kids play outside?

As a public health nurse and parent, I sometimes feel like I am pulled in opposing directions when trying to balance safety and physical activity.

In public health, our priority is prevention. If we spend our limited time, energy and resources on preventing disease and injury, we stand to save a huge amount of time, energy and resources on treating the actual disease or injury.

Exhibit one: Did you know the number one reason kids visit the emergency room is from falls? My daughter became one of those statistics when she fell at home while learning to walk and hit her head on a sharp corner. She earned three stitches on her forehead and even though I did nothing to cause it, it felt like I had failed her because it could been prevented. I immediately installed safety bumpers on all the sharp corners in my house and tried to resist the incredible urge to wrap my child in bubble wrap. So if it had been prevented, it would have spared my daughter pain, spared me the guilt, and not to mention health care dollars and use of emergency room space since the fall happened outside the hours of operation of our local urgent care clinic. Key learning: prevent the fall, prevent the injury! Continue reading

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Toys are taking over my house!

Mother among toysIt’s the middle of the week and my house already looks like two energetic little kids were let loose and ‘attacked’ all their toys. Actually, that’s exactly what happened and it’s the same every week!

At the end of the day I don’t have the energy to tidy up their toys, especially when I know they will all just be scattered about again the next day.

Actually, hang on just a second! Why am I cleaning up their toys in the first place?  Cleaning up our things is an important life skill and my kids are old enough to learn to put their toys away, even my 15- month-old. Below are some strategies we like here at HaltonParents. Continue reading

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Back to work: My new reality!

I had a moment a few weeks ago and realized midday that it was Tuesday – not Thursday! The reality of this would be disappointing for most but for me it was overwhelming because I just returned to work after a full year of maternity leave.

This is the third time I have “transitioned” back to work after a maternity leave, so one would think I would have a handle on things.  Alas, I do not.  Actually, I think it has been harder to find my groove this time.  There just seems to be more to do. Continue reading

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“You hurt my feelings!!!” – Helping kids manage big emotions

Last updated: January 6, 2025

Several years ago now, I was like most parents in the thick of parenting young children: sleep deprived, exhausted, focused on completing the daily tasks and frequently feeling overwhelmed.  During those years I was just in survival mode most of the time, and there was little time for reflection or examination of my parenting practices.

During this time, as many of you will relate to, I had a child whose temperament was hmmm, let’s just say…intense!  From the time when she was a baby, my daughter wore her emotions on her sleeve.  In her toddler years she cried a lot, was prone to intense flashes of anger, and was very sensitive to just about everything.  Her emotions could swing like a pendulum in a matter of minutes, so it was often difficult for both of us.

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“But how did the baby get in there?”

My three year old loves it when we tell her stories at bedtime. Once I decided to tell her the story of when her little brother was born. My story basically explained that there was a baby growing in mommy’s tummy and then I had to go in to the hospital where her brother was born, and how happy she was to hold him for the first time.

When I was finished telling the story, there was silence. I walked right into this one, didn’t I? Continue reading

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