Minor hockey in our family was simply a ways to a means. And no, not a means to a budding NHL career, but a means to a play date – the after hockey play date!
I thought every child would squeal with delight at the prospect of continuing this day of fun together with their teammates at someone’s house, but while my son was always included in the invitations, rarely did he ever want to go. I just couldn’t understand why not and would worry that something was wrong with him.
My son never verbalized exactly why he didn’t want to go, only that he just didn’t want to. It wasn’t that he was shy, because when he was with his friends, he was always joined in and appeared to be having a great time. But still this mystified me; I worried that his not wanting to go to these noisy gatherings might cause him to lose friends, so I thought that this was a sign of something that I needed to keep an eye on. Continue reading
