Ready Set Go to Kindergarten: Thinking and Learning

This post is one of a 5-part series about preparing your preschooler for Kindergarten. Be sure to check out Paula’s other top 10 tips for getting your preschooler off to a good start.

“What letter is that?”  You anxiously await a response – confident that, having sung the “Alphabet Song” for years, he is certain to give you the correct answer…”R” he states with pride as you slump in your chair staring at the neatly printed letter “T” taunting you on the page.  He tells you that his friend Jacob’s name starts with a “J” and that Victoria’s starts with a “V”.  You catch on and ask, “What does Tony’s name start with?” Of course he says “T” – he knew it all along but being asked directly just didn’t work for him.  His way of thinking and learning is as unique as his funny little giggle and the freckles on his nose! Continue reading

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Ready Set Go to Kindergarten: Communication and Language

This post is one of a 5-part series about preparing your preschooler  for Kindergarten. Be sure to check out Paula’s other top 10 tips for getting your preschooler off to a good start.

She spoke in sentences at just over a year old.  He didn’t say a word till he was two.  But since the moment I knew they were in my growing belly – we were communicating.  From baby bump to birth to back-pack, you have been communicating with your child too!  Talking, singing, reading, making random sounds, whistling, humming – whatever your style – you have been expressing your love and commitment to your kids from day one – and they have been listening and learning. Continue reading

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Ready Set Go to Kindergarten: Growing A Healthy Body

This post is the first of a 5-part series about getting your preschooler ready for Kindergarten. Be sure to check out Paula’s other top 10 tips for getting your preschooler off to a good start.

“Eat your veggies”, “Sneeze into your elbow”, “Wear your hat and sunglasses”, “Be careful”, “Wash your hands”, “Get off the couch and do something”, “If you don’t get to sleep, you won’t grow” –  as much as I hate to admit it, mom, grandma, Uncle Jim and step-dad were quite right! These pearls of wisdom, along with a secure base of unconditional love, acceptance and support gave us the stuff we needed right from the start. Continue reading

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Helmets and concussion in sports…what’s the big deal?

I was a figure skater for many years and bumped my head more than once.  When my grandfather taught me to skate on the backyard rink I didn’t wear a helmet.  However, when my son learned on the backyard rink he did have a helmet on.  What’s the big deal about wearing a helmet?  Why is concussion in sports such a hot topic? Let me tell you why those of us in public health are concerned about this issue.

Popular sports and recreation past times like skiing, tobogganing, hockey, skating, bicycling and soccer carry a degree of risk and can result in serious – but preventable injuries.

Injury is the leading killer of Canadian children and youth from one to 19 years of age.  More than 40% of child and youth injuries treated in emergency departments are sport and recreation related. Head injuries were sustained during sports and recreational activities in 28% of children and youth who were admitted to Canadian hospitals with traumatic injuries.

We can’t bubble wrap our kids, so what do we do as parents?  Educate ourselves and take action.

What you should know about concussions:

  • tired teenaged boy“If in doubt, sit them out!”  Know the signs and symptoms of a concussion.  A concussion is actually a brain injury, it sounds scary because it can be.  If you are not sure if your child has sustained a concussion sit them out.  Parachute Canada has excellent resources for parents, coaches and teachers.
  • Report it!  The coach, your doctor, and your child’s teachers should know your child has had a concussion.  CBC’s Wendy Mesley of The National in her report Concussions: A silent epidemic? explores how concussions may be more common than we think because of under-reporting.
  • Rest!  Physical and mental rest is crucial to heal a concussion.  Young athletes will need to rest from their sport, but their brain will need to rest from all thinking activities as well.  This means no school work and no video gaming or TV.
  • Be a good role model.  Wear a helmet when you are out there too. Don’t tell your child to “shake it off, and get back out there.” Teach them it’s OK to sit out if you are injured. They’ll be better off going back to their sport when they are fully recovered.

Being physically active and participating in sports is a part of a healthy childhood.  But as parents, it is our responsibility to ensure their safety by getting the proper training, wearing the gear, and following the rules of play.  As a mother of an aspiring hockey player, that’s all I want for my child.

Share your experience:

For more tips and hints about injury prevention, or to share your experience, there are many ways you can talk to one of us directly:

For parenting information or to speak with a Public Health Nurse (every Monday to Friday from 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.) Simply dial 311 or 905-825-6000.

About this guest blogger:

Nicholle Russell RN has been working in Public Health in the School Years Program for over 8 years.  She is passionate about youth engagement and creating opportunities for young people to become involved in and contribute to the community in which they live.  You may also find her at a rink near you… cheering on her son’s team, or ice dancing to stay in shape.

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Through the lens of depression: my marriage, pregnancy, and a high-needs baby

I was really excited for the birth of our second child.  We had always planned on having more than one, and I was really looking forward to my two and a half year old becoming a big brother.

My pregnancy was not the easiest pregnancy, but I was okay with the continuous nausea for the first twenty weeks and the pelvic pain that started soon after, because I knew it was worth it.  However, in my third trimester things started to change.  I started feeling very angry and knew I was really losing my patience with my son, who was behaving like a normal two year old.  I became really snippy with my husband, and looking back I was definitely not the nicest person to be around.  I attributed it to the fact that I was uncomfortable all of the time and exhausted. Continue reading

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