Letter to parents about vaccinations and Halton’s measles outbreak

Dear Parent or Caregiver,

As I write this there have been six reported cases of measles in Halton Region. These six people, in the time they were infected to before they realized they had measles, have also been in contact with hundreds of other people in our community. Unfortunately, measles is very contagious and the virus can survive for 2 hours in the air and on surfaces. This is especially scary for those who cannot rely on vaccinations for immunity to measles. I’m talking about infants under the age of one, and children and adults whose immune systems are far too weak due to other illnesses or cancer treatments. For these people, and pregnant women, measles can be especially dangerous. But generally speaking, especially for those of us who are healthy, we don’t worry too much about these illnesses because we haven’t experienced first-hand the types of outbreaks that occurred before routine vaccinations were introduced. However, the illnesses we get immunized against still happen unexpectedly and can spread quickly.

If you decided not to immunize your baby, or at least not to give your toddler the MMR vaccine, no doubt you were trying to choose the best option for your child given the information you had at the time. There is no judgement here.  Continue reading

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Oh what a night: The power of friendship

And now the conclusion to the story I posted on July 2 about the most strikingly meaningful night in recent family history.  Last we left our struggling songstress…

“The intermission ended and the house lights dimmed – a single spotlight illuminated centre stage…my little girl looked tinier than ever standing there all alone.  The music started, her shaky lips parted” and my baby, well she started to sing; a little quiet and shaky at first, but on key and in good time with the music.  Her voice started out low and (just like Dr. Seuss’ Whos down in Whoville on Christmas morning) it started to grow!  By the time she reached the chorus, my girl was belting it out like a pro!  And as her voice grew stronger and my shoulders relaxed, my heart filled with pride; not because she was on key or in time, but because she had faced her fear and nailed it!

But wait!  There’s more!  What followed in that tiny church in the unbearable heat was the stuff of screenplays!  Continue reading

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Toddlers, Transitions and Tantrums

A few months ago, I felt like I lost my grip on this mommy thing. Only now am I ready to share. It was about my daughter’s transition to child care: the most challenging mommy experience I’ve had to date. And by challenging, I mean question-everything-I’m-doing-I-must-be-failing-what’s-wrong-with-me challenging.

Thing is, my Pumpkin’s transition into her actual child care placement went so smoothly. She didn’t even cry! My daughter is slow to warm up to new people and new situations, and so we slowly transitioned her into care over a few weeks. I was one proud mommy when I heard she was doing so well. I, too, found my transition back to work incredibly easy.

So what’s the problem, you ask?? Continue reading

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Ready, Set, GO!…to Kindergarten that is!

The “transition to kindergarten” – three little words, but they mean A LOT!  Trust me.  Been there; done that.  Bought the t-shirt (literally)!  The transition to kindergarten is a very exciting and eventful time for any family and is a rite of passage for our little ones that we’ll cherish forever.  But it is also riddled with plans to be made, tasks to be done and the odd worry thrown in along the way to keep us honest!

As I sat, teary-eyed and nostalgic, watching my “baby” graduate from SK a month ago, I realized how far we’d come over the past couple of years and what a big boy I now had on my hands.  I remembered the seemingly endless days (fleeting moments really) working with him on buttons, zippers, boots, snow pants, lunch and snack containers, toileting and all the other self-help stuff he needed to know heading into JK.  Having long mastered all those things now, it almost saddened me to realize just how independent he had become and how much growing and changing he’d done in such a short time. Continue reading

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Why you’re STILL talking about sleep when you have teens…

As I read my colleague, Andrea’s, recent post Is she sleeping through the night yet?, I chuckled to myself because, guess what? I’m still talking about sleep now that my babies are teens! They stay up late & sleep late…very LATE on the weekends. I know I did this as a teen, and should be able to relate, but now I’m the mother and wonder what I should be doing or saying.

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Teens go through many changes, including rapid growth that requires extra sleep. However, their increasing independence and biological development are also turning them into night owls. Most teens often get less sleep than they really need. Continue reading

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