I recently delivered a presentation to a group of parents with young children on ‘mealtime mania’–the name says it all. Parents were worried that their toddlers were not eating enough, were refusing to try new foods, or were a picky eater. There are many tips on helping toddlers and preschoolers eat well, but I wanted to share one simple tip that really worked for me.
I too struggled at mealtimes with my kids. What should be an enjoyable family experience became something I dreaded, usually ending in a power struggle. That being said, I didn’t repeat how I was raised, telling my kids “You’re not leaving the table until you clean your plate.” But I did hover over them as they ate, carefully watching what their next bite would be. This often ended with them refusing to eat, only eating one thing on their plate, or having a complete meltdown. Continue reading
