How am I ever going to tell my children I have Cancer?

I remember the day the surgeon definitively told me I had breast cancer like it was yesterday.  It was a beautiful sunny June morning.  The day was filled with excitement and anticipation.  My husband and I were leaving on a trip just the two of us that night.  My in-laws had arrived from out of town to care for my two daughters aged 10 and 12 and we had a big celebration ceremony at the girls’ school that evening.  I didn’t have time for a detour.

Breast Cancer Ribbons small size iStock_000018048168SmallThe appointment with the surgeon was supposed to be a consult.  I was just expecting her to tell me she would order more tests.  I was not expecting the gut wrenching conclusive words.  “You have Breast Cancer…you need to have a mastectomy as soon as possible.”

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Just Wash’em!

“Did you wash your hands?” How many times do you end up saying that to your kids in one day?? I know I’ve said my fair share when my kids were younger.  Between kids playing with bugs and making mud pies there are ample opportunities to be exposed to germs. Continue reading

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Rebellious Behaviour from an Adolescent with a Developmental Disability

“I don’t want to go to summer camp this year! I hate summer camp!  You can’t make me go!”  The frustrated and confused mother can’t understand why her 15-year old daughter is being so difficult.  She has gone every other year.  This camp has staff that knows her and is trained in working with children with developmental disabilities.  The mother stops and asks “Then what do you want to do this summer?”  The daughter replies “A camp that does not treat me like a baby!”.  Continue reading

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Doors Wide Open: A Parent’s Perspective of Mental Illness

Although we are starting to hear more and more about mental health, there is still not enough information available to parents when they need it the most. None of us wants to be the parent that needs these resources for our children, but if we or one of our friends do, we need to have the tools at our fingertips. Continue reading

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If you could be any age again, what age would you choose?

Me?  I’d choose 8.  When I was 8, physical activity wasn’t a separate thing on the TO DO list. It was what we did for fun, for friendship, and for getting out of the house.  We didn’t even know it was physical activity, we just thought it was “doing stuff”.  Some of the most important things I ever learned – like creativity, healthy risk-taking, forming positive relationships, and handling both success and failure – happened when I was 8, doing stuff. Continue reading

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