Why babies and toddlers should stay in a rear-facing car seat as long as possible

Diono_Rainier_RFBigKidI remember a number of years ago (okay, full confession – about 18 years ago) when I couldn’t wait to move my baby out of her infant-only car seat and into her new forward-facing car seat.  I was anxious to turn her around so I could see her more easily and I was worried about her crossed legs being injured in an accident.  It’s what I knew at the time, but  now I know better.

As a Certified Car Seat Safety Technician, I now know that babies and toddlers are much safer when travelling in the rear-facing position.  Based on research and crash test data, the recommendations for how long children should stay in the rear-facing position have changed.  Car seat manufacturers have responded to this new information by redesigning car seats that can be used in the rear-facing position with much higher child weight and height limits than before – great news for your little one’s safety! Continue reading

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“No smoking” near playgrounds, sports fields and pools – thanks to changes in Smoke-Free Ontario Act

Now that spring has arrived, many of us are once again enjoying or making plans to enjoy the outdoors, but sometimes taking your kids out to enjoy some important physical activity like playing soccer, baseball or even a swim at the local pool can put you and your family at risk from someone else’s  second-hand smoke.

I want to take a few moments to remind families about some important changes to the Smoke-Free Ontario Act (SFOA) that will allow all of us to breathe a little easier. Continue reading

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Letting go will help my kids learn to be organized. Now where to start?!

In my household I am the primary “organizer.” I do many things, probably too many things. I am She-woman, hear me roar! I keep everyone organized, from homework to preparing and getting everyone to where they need to be. I take this role seriously, part of me thinks that without my outstanding organizational skills my family would be in total chaos and completely lost without me.

As my kids grow up, I am slowly realizing that by doing this, I have become a bit of a martyr. I do, do, do and expect gratitude AND everyone expects me to do it. I’ve come to accept that I may actually be doing a disservice to my family. Small tasks that should be second nature to my kids (and husband) seem to continuously fall on me. Have I created a cycle of dependency? Continue reading

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Are your kids ready to handle an emergency?

Emergencies happen. As adults, we try to prepare for them with home fire escape plans, emergency car kits, and some of us also take CPR and first aid courses. We also do our best to keep our families safe by preventing dangerous situations in the home.

But with all of our preparation, sometimes bad things still happen. When your children are old enough to stay at home alone or babysit others, it’s important for them to be and feel prepared by knowing what to do in case of an emergency. Continue reading

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Attitude changes and emotional outbursts. Should I be worried?

“Can you please clean the cat litter?”, I ask as I’m running out to get groceries. My daughter’s response: “No thank you!” I don’t know if she thought adding the “thank you” would soften her response and get her off the hook. Did I mention she’s a pre-teen? Yes that’s right, not a toddler. Remember those fun, strong-willed independent toddler days? Well somehow they crawl back into your life in a larger prepubescent body. Continue reading

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